Tell him he needs to let you know otherwise you will go work on yourself as well. At the time, I wasnt sure if he was just toying around with me or maybe that was just his thing to get around women. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you've asked him what he's been up to; he is either feeling he doesn't have to answer to you or he knows he's being dishonest. My experience with some Pisces men is that they have an idealized version of their past ex, and they keep playing that story in their heads on repeat, when in reality, that ex, or their past experience with her, wasnt as great as they have made it up in their mind. Thanks. hes an athlete as well. The 11th grader looked at me and said, wait you like kohen? We were put in a trumpet group chat and one day I wanted to ask him a question so I direct messaged him. Then I reached out to him, and he responded, and we got cozy again, and he began to tell me he could not wait to see me. We ended up taking a scooter to go around the city and later having drinks and talking about business and philosophical issues. I feel stuck because he ended up agreeing to let me stay with him at his place when I was in town, and he seemed super interested in seeing me because he wanted to hook up. I feel confused that why did he then want to take things forward with me ? They know how to play with peoples heartstrings and this gives your Pisces man a lot of power because he knows how to control people based on their emotions. Tell him you feel unwanted or desired. Think back to moments like your first kiss, the first time you hung out together, or even that fateful day you locked eyes in class. We went out and hit it off in an eventually very long date. Tell him you love him and miss him. Next weekend came nothing he is busy with studies. If he has plans with you and calls you to tell you he cannot make it or wants to change the dates; hes up to something. Call him on it sweetheart. This is where his actions become more important than his words. so I can hear your voice. Then I begin to feel bad, we can go weeks without speaking even though I reach out all of the time to resolve issues. And he said no we will make plans to see each other the Sunday. I told him I was sorry and that I dont want him to hate me but all he said was I dont hate anyone. Then at every practice, the trumpets would talk about how I liked him. We ended up laughing, drinking and kissing at the end of the night. After that last message, he blocked me. There after he didnt see me for 2 months which was so weird and unusual and I tried my best to be positive and patient with him. Hi, I am a pisces woman who was dating a pisces man for last one year. He also has a problem with my age and tells me to move on and to focus on my life and family. I have never asked him for money and asking him for money for birth control has always happened and his always sent it and weve discussed it so its not unusual. I just want to know if I should pursue this feeling of mine or let it go. Give him a chance to explain. This is how you will for sure find out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. Hes been really sick and stressed. If you want to know more about the Pisces man and how they operate, check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. But he called me before I could get home and asked me why I left so abruptly? I told him one night I want to know. Pisces Moon - 2 years. we met here for a reason. Me and Evan were talking about pianos when suddenly kohen told his brother (loud enough for me to hear, but acted like it was just between him and his brother) that he should start playing guitar again. But he will always text me. honestly i saw this coming but at the same time he was asking me a lot of questions about me and was staring into my soul. He said I understand if you are upset, I said Im not upset, Im sad and that was it. and there were many things, he said perfect. This is what makes Pisces men such good liars. The thing is, your Earth and Fire sign is taking over and making you doubt him and being impatient with him. Not to let him get away with stuff but being able to talk to him in a soft way that wont make him feel as though hes an awful person. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. Some women may resort to texting him repeatedly and chasing him down, but this will only scare your Pisces man off even more. Try talking to him and call him out for watching you. I think that you should stop talking to him. 12 Of The Worst Negative Personality Traits That Are Truly Nasty. We did eventually Facetime and confirmed the date and time for Thurs. This is a super cowardly thing to do, but I guess it has been a very long time since he has been able to get away with this kind of behavior. I didnt think that I liked him, but I did think he was cute. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. You two need to get everything out on the table so that you are on the same page and know for sure whether this is something you can work with or if you two need to let go. If he really does love you and its not infatuation then he will stick around and still continue to treat you as though youre everything. He never once asked me for anything. When he wants to get back with you he will start by checking in on you. The more you do this, the more gets aired out and maybe moved past so you both can be healthy. I dont know where this relationship is going I guess I will find out if I still go visit him. So told him Im ok with it I understand certain things are important so I dont mind waiting to see him. He introduced me to his family and friends. Send him very sweet but light messages that do not make him feel pressured. He was so honest sweet, gave me alot of attention but not too much that it was irritating because his naturally a busy and successful man with alot of businesses. We then moved on to exchanging numbers and would message each other almost everyday. He calls me his Queen, when he is happy with me, but then when I dont give him money, he lashes out at me. Sometimes he may legitimately have something come up and needs to change but when you see hes doing it often, you know something is going on and its time to perhaps put your foot down. Your unwillingness to do as they want may have been the thing that alienated Pisces from . It turned into a big argument and he was mad and said I attacked his character. Then Hed either pretend like nothing happened or he would apologise and make promises. He claims he 40 and wants a real substantial relationship. Be very careful. In the middle of the week he texted me he could not stop smiling thinking of our time together, he also called me for about 2 hours. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. I wish i had known it better. He even texted me saying dont forget you have a man now, you cant let hours go without checking in here I am loving the consistency and attention. Over the summer, as I transitioned from the eighth to ninth grade, I decided to be in the high school marching band because I play the trumpet. We met for lunch and a long walk, and later in the afternoon we went to my place to start cooking. This is often how a Pisces man will test you. We talked. Through April weve been FaceTiming and texting non stop. You should either reach out to him and tell him you like him or you should just walk away. Im the only girl he constantly brought with his family. There are definitely some signs a Pisces man is playing you and tests that he puts his partner through. Ti be honest with you Im uncertain and scared of the future. This includes making you think hes telling you the truth when hes actually being deceptive. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. Since then everything was amazing. He got a 2nd job without discussing what I think. Body movement is a good indicator also. His character changed but he still cared enough to contact me every day. He wont commit but has talked to me about marriage and have another baby. When I confronted abt this he said he thinks he has intimacy issues and doesnt know why he cant spend time alone with me. Maybe this Pisces is a little too immature and doesn't understand that it will take a while for you to come around when he had the hots for you. Knowledge is power, and there is a lot you can do with this information. Though during the day we hung out with his best friend and the best friends gf then later we were alone for maybe 8 hrs and let me add how he said to them that Ive been giving this girl so much stress but she has been so calm about it, I usually dont last with woman . He sounds like a great guy. But I feel like he thinks he has me so he doesnt have to do all the things he did in the beginning. I explained I didnt want to disturb him. Offer a new solution. Sometimes I cant help but feel like him being a Pisces and saying all these things is just his dreamy side. I dont understand why his acting weird and ignoring me. Im an Aquarius woman that fell deeply in love with a Pisces man. Pisces has a hard time dealing with their feelings and can become a bit of a mess when that happens. Do things you love and spend time with people you care for. He would talk to me everyday even do cute little things like want to hold my hand, always give me a hug, and even compliment me but it would always seem like he was trying to play me. He does have alot of luxurious cars by the way maybe 10. He was upset, because he said I did not trust him. I was back there getting my trumpet when he pulled out a card and started reading it to his brother. And he had decided I am the one to spend his life with. If youve been around your Pisces man enough, you know he has a way with words that can convince anyone of anything. This will aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. I learnt these things the hard way, and I only wish I had handled things better. Dont worry! A life partner. Ive only been with my Pisces 3 months. You could be having a crazy busy. I dont think hes ready to do that. I do wish you all the very best in life sweetheart! Hell probably try to give you a story but again; watch his behavior as he talks. Shortly after, kohen texted back saying man making me feel bad with the crying emoji. He was soo much fun that night. I would say you should do a check in with him every few months. One text caused less than one minute. Tug at your Pisces' man's heartstrings by walking down memory lane. Wishing you the best! So said I said youre the one who said youll text you in the morning. He never responded after that. If your reaction to being ghosted is more aggressive, punch a pillow. Capricorn and Pisces Compatibility - 3 years. It will make things worse actually. Make sure hes not just out to play you and hurt you. What is your advice for me? This isnt even all of the details but a summary..what do you think ? Once he's calmed down, he may come back and tell you he didn't actually want to break up. If a relationship between the two of you can happen it will require much more lessons in communication. If hes not seeing anyone else and treating you as he does then hang onto it. This should help you decide to cut him loose or to try to work it out with him. If he cannot answer its because hes not sure. Suddenly, A Pisces man just messaged me out of nowhere, stating, he follows his heart and thought I would be a nice person to talk to. I told him let me in to heal you, he said he will be happy if I heal him, should I just continue with him or distance myself from him. wait to give me a hug first like he reached his arm and stopped me aggressively I was shaking so we hugged but then he started feeling on my ass I let him, next thing I know he cant stop touching and coming near me we were around kids so he turned off the lights grabbed me close and kissed me it seemed like he wanted more when we sat back on the bed he turned the lights of again grabs my face kissed me on my cheek and kiss me on the lips again he took my phone and put in his snap and honestly you went back to his state and he barely texted me only ounce then we never spoke but I still really like him why did he ghost me?. His last words were, go to bed. Sorry for my rambling. Met a I would strongly advise you to trust the red flags you are experiencing. Appreciate your advice. He is ten years younger than me and this is always bothering me. Its weird. When a Pisces man is done with you, you will most definitely know. Yes, if hes sick and stressed then this will definitely cause him to be incapable of handling a relationship. I wouldnt recommend doing the silent treatment. At the end of that date we kissed. He once told me I was his soulmate. He broke my heart in pieces and so I spent a lot of time grieving as I was super young. And on the trumpet group chat, he likes all of her messages but not mine. It sounds like you need more work on yourself and some healing so that no matter who you are with, you are able to process emotions better. He came with an excuse saying he was going through personal issues and wanted to isolated himself. So I text him at noon and say so no more morning texts? And he response is so Im the only one who can text? Implying it would be nice if I texted too. Why do that if he isnt into you? Otherwise just enjoy him. The emotional roller coaster needs to slow down. Treat yourself with loving care and respect. I know he really loves me just by his actions and words. Im sorry you learned the hard way sweetheart. Then he said, Did Fregley tell you? Also, Fregley is not his actual name. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. Its was a wonderful time together. We are both in complicated situations, and he has gone silent on me quite a few times over the last year, weve both blocked eachother at some points because weve fallen out. Pretending everything's forgiven when it's not, just so you can ghost him right back, will most likely backfire. I was bit confrontational that night. We have been speaking to each other everyday and as childish as it may seem we sleep on video together every night. But I also dont want to be wasting my time. Our relationship last year, when everything was good, was amazing. There is a small chance that he may be really surprised that you arent chasing him, that he may come circling back to you, but dont hold your breath in for this. Give it time. He replied 10 minutes later with its march 3, dont forget. No response, 2 days later he calls me acting a bit rude, but I was super chilled overall Im a chilled person. Help! While hes going through a difficult time, he will seem sort of detached but he did say its not because of you. The red flags were just as this article stated; mind games, lying, omitted stories etc. I sent an apology email, and I messaged him on messenger, apologizing and asking to be unblocked. I kind of stayed with my group of friends. Would he actually make it into a reality? Pisces guy about a week ago via a dating app. We were to go get a drink but opted just to sit in his car and talk more. Your Taurean pride may lose him though. I feel crazy saying hes watching me but it feels that way. Shutterstock. Is this my fault for being so defensive at the beginning? And be loving and caring instead of full of hatred. The miscarriages were probably the universe saying dont have kids with this guy at least not now. If you told me youre swamped with certs, I wouldve understood. I also realized that he has intimacy issues. This is my first time dating a pisces so is it because we are moving too fast that he just wants to be friends and when he says he will reach out, will he really or is he just softening the blow? Especially feelings like guilt. The good thing about a Pisces man is that when he commits, he really commits. So the rest of the night went amazing we talked in bed for hours about everything and anything so before falling asleep we started making out and we finished each other off by hand we cuddled the whole night the feeling I got from him was warm and loving and honestly that night I felt like I love this man, Im not going to tell him this but this is how I felt about him. He said he was serious about me staying; however, we never talked about it again after that one evening, so he didnt know I was serious. For sure though you need to ask him if there is someone else in his life. However; there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and hes no different and that is body language! Last time I got fed up with his silent treatment I held my own, I didnt reach out at all and I went quiet on social media, and after 3-4 weeks he text me out of the blue. Pisces men want lots of attention and adoration from the person they consider to be their partner. After the break, he seemed a little distant as if he didnt want to talk much anymore even though we had a really fun time over text. Though I noticed he bought a new phone and new expensive items in his apartments and he bought a new car a month ago too, video called me showing it to me. If you want to keep someone around, you have to act like you actually want them there. Thats a first! Hello. Let go of your need for revenge. He doesnt want the titled because it scares him so he keeps it as is but hey if hes playing the role then just keep going with it. I did and we had sex, watched a movie, cuddled and he asked if he could see me. He seemed to be fine with it and engaged in conversations. Some of them are even Masochistic people: the worse you treat them, the more they care. If you need more tips, check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets! However, he needs to learn that his sensitivity and emotions are his own responsibility and he needs to figure out how to cope with these feelings productively. We texted and talked more that day. He moved away to a different state this month, and just recently, he offered to let me stay at his apartment when I visited, but after I told him the dates, he said hed let me know that day and never got back to me. Hopefully hell explain himself better. Then he said, Wbu, what kind of music do you like? It was weird because he never asked me a question before especially after I asked one. Pisces men are quite popular under the ladies. I would go ahead and text him, yes. He is a very social person and he would never spend time alone with me. I felt that he was playing with me, Last night he texted me saying hes busy and gonna go to bed early for these few days. Not all Pisces men are players and cheaters sweetheart. You may see this as him being a player, but remember, if the two of you havent spoken about being exclusive, then it doesnt really count. Ive been trying to keep him encouraged and supportive through his situation. I broke up with him recently but I am confused in my head if I did the right thing. I advised him that I needed to keep my distance and once I admitted why all he said was sorry. Hes not given me direct answers. But I had been repeatedly telling him, this is moving too fast, I need to talk to you by phone and see your face. Am I fool to keep chasing and wanting to be with him, oh and FYI there is a 15 year difference between us, but that does not seem to matter to either of us. Please dont write Pisces men off from your sour experience sweetheart. It depends on him and what his belief system is. Anyway I stayed calm and 9 hrs later I texted again and I said alternatively we can just use condoms until I can get birth control and still no response. Ive apologized for our argument which he didnt on his part but admitted to being wrong about not telling mewho he was hanging out with. He said everything I needed to hear. What are your thoughts please. Eventually he had to go back home after spending 1 day together Before saying goodbye, he said that he felt some pressure with me, that he wouldnt like me to jump to conclusions and why should we put a label on that? (me asking him why he went outside to smoke, or when i mentioned in one of our discussions that we just started dating I said it in the sense of meeting up to get to know each other). I don't literally mean by mistake, anyway. If he acts super sensitive and is playing the victim card just realize that he is trying to test his boundaries with you. I am not sure if he was upset that I asked for validation again or because I didnt believe him. I didnt know how to feel. He knows all the right things to say to get into your life or into your pants. Treat others (even your ghosting ex) with kindness if you want to be treated kindly. Then he told all of the other trumpets that it was that day. But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in. So last week he finally texted me and we made plans to see on another. So how to know if a Pisces man is playing you? I wish you the best! If this happens, he'll be more motivated to get you back. I texted him 2 hours prior to confirm bc he is flaky. Like I I helped him go to therapy for his depression, we talked about certain thing and I let him know . Hi! Tell him how you feel about him, show him by showering him with affection and cuddles (they love cuddles). He tells me hes not taken me for granted but his responses to my supportive behavior are very vague if he even responds at all. Because of my traumatic past Ive said mean and horrible things to him to avoid myself being hurt all over again. He would flake and we stopped talking then he popped back up and apologized. And before I left he told me he wil see me the next weekend. Im a Scorpio and I met him at 20 and he was so crazy about me emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. Im just trying to figure out how to move this thing along at a normal pace instead of a snails pace but maybe it ends now since I wont see him again for at least another month such a bummer I was really into him!! So the story is we matched on tinder and we talked for a while and we met up it was great het also said he enjoyed spending time with me so we talked for like 2 more days like this is going in the right direction and then one morning he told me if I could give him some time he would appreciate it, because he wants to talk to his parents about us and because I have a son he wants to make sure he is ready for this and make his parents comfortable with it. He has to choose so you can. I was furious! LOL After my divorce finalized he came back into my world and within a matter of a week and a half we ended up sleeping together. We share the same values and interests but sometimes disagree with one anothers practices) Its hard to know which is which without a bit of time and research. Ask him why he keeps flaking out on you. Sometimes, a Pisces man who has broken up with you will suddenly realize what a big mistake he's made. I texted the next day and asked if he was okay. He also asked my opinion on what to buy like couple do we prayed before we ate breakfast everything was amazing. Maybe he is actually busy and not doing what you think he is doing. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers, 3. So I would see this guy pretty often. Well when the new yr came 2019 I would only see him once in a blue moon. He hugged me, and he said he will call me during the week to see how Im doing, I agreed but dont know how I feel about this. However, he stood up a bit after to go outside and smoke (previously he did it inside with the window open), so I was like is everything ok?. Pisces men are run by their emotions sometimes. He got drowned by his own thoughts. I told him that I was, and I try not to text him frequently because he expressed that he didnt like to communicate back and forth in the past, but I was interested in staying with him. When I tried to understand what exactly turned him off and explain myself in case of misunderstanding, he didnt seem to like it very much, he said this is my gut feeling, what would you do if you were me? I said in general I give some time to people. Dont be afraid of stating how you disapprove of his actions. I love your feedback! You cant push them or pressure them. If its an issue to him then again its not the right relationship for you. I give some time to people: the worse you treat them, the trumpets would talk how. 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